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# Re: Re: Mundane Relationships

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- To: BardonPraxis@yahoogroups.com
- Subject: Re: [BardonPraxis] Re: Mundane Relationships
- From: "lux xul" <luxxul@...>
- Date: Mon, 24 Nov 2003 19:31:08 +0000
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    Greetings.

`I would reply that ANY relationship may be FOUND TO BE ever increasingly and continuously FILLED with potentialities and actualities for growth spiritual, emotional and mental, etc. I believe, like *Love*.. it completely depends upon ones CAPACITY to see/hear/experience that potential and the manifesting actuality of that *Love*. Replace *Love* with anything you desire, and its 'limits' as well, I believe, are only due to limits of capacity to experience its nuances.`

    Ex:
    "Let he who has ears to hear, hear." and "Let he who has eyes to see, see."

`For one to lose interest is perhaps only the reflection of the current capacity rather than the poteniaility inherent in that relationship.`

    Ex:
    "Love thine enemy as ye love thyself."

    Thank you,
    :T:

>     From: "David Yeh" <ldreamr@...>
>     Reply-To: BardonPraxis@yahoogroups.com
>     To: BardonPraxis@yahoogroups.com
>     Subject: [BardonPraxis] Re: Mundane Relationships
>     Date: Thu, 20 Nov 2003 21:17:34 -0000

>     Allen,

>     I resonate with what you're saying, and also with Rawn's reply too.
>     For me it comes down to whether or not there are any opportunities
>     for personal growth within my relationships. I find that some
>     relationships, especially the not-so-close ones, tend to fall away as
>     interests diverge. I feel that that kind of thing is natural. On
>     the other hand if there is any judgment involved, as Rawn mentioned,
>     then I think that's an area ripe for exploration.

>     For myself, I've found both things happening at different points.
>     Sometimes I keep myself distant and uninterested, so that I feel
>     superior to other people and my self-importance is bolstered. At
>     other times I'm just not interested for whatever reason and we fail
>     to click. (For instance, if I'm talking to someone who's really,
>     really into Monday Night Football and won't talk about anything else -
>     - well, there's hardly a basis for a relationship with me.) In the
>     latter case, I would question why I am still trying to engage this
>     relationship, or what I CAN get out of the relationship -- modifying
>     my expectations to meet the reality.

>     David

>     --- In BardonPraxis@yahoogroups.com, Allen Kray <sourceport@y...>
>     wrote:
>     > Hello All,
>     >
>     > The deeper my practice, the better I become at dealing
>     > with situations concerning anger, hate, jealously,
>     > judgement, etc. This of course is to be expected if
>     > anyone truly endeavors to transform their negative
>     > traits in the soul mirror.
>     >
>     > Yet, on the other side of the coin, I notice that I am
>     > beginning to deal with people more as an observer. I
>     > listen to what they are saying, talk less, smile, and
>     > rarely become interactive anymore in a conversation,
>     > especially if I sense anything negative or not
>     > spiritually beneficial. To be honest, the daily
>     > concerns of most people is beginning to feel like a
>     > chore to listen to. I am sure people are noticing this
>     > new behaviour. I even notice people getting mad
>     > because I do not choose anymore to "participate" in
>     > their emotions as I may have before. I also choose to
>     > keep my spiritual life very private and never talk
>     > about it, but there are always clever people who
>     > notice things...
>     >
>     > Does anyone here on the list have similar experiences
>     > and any advice how to deal with people that are happy
>     > not to ask questions in this world of delusion? (that
>     > shouldn't be read as condescending).
>     >
>     > Sincerely,
>     > Allen

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