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# Re: Re: Anger

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- To: BardonPraxis@yahoogroups.com
- Subject: Re: [BardonPraxis] Re: Anger
- From: Amberlyn <amberlyn@...>
- Date: Fri, 25 Apr 2003 09:42:43 -0400
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    Greetings,

    Nita wrote:
    > I have found that if people are judmental they will pick on you no
    >matter what you do.
    <snip>
    > IIH is really good for you because in the Soul mirror work you can
    >see your personality and change what you don't like.

    This reminded me of a profound change in my life. My mother is *very*
    judgmental - it is just her nature. As a child it seemed no matter how I
    might have excelled, she found fault with me. There came a time in my early
    30's, when enough became enough. I went through a traumatic event, and did
    some intense soul mirror work, without then knowing what it was. I changed
    - big time. I developed strength, self-confidence and self-esteem, and
    finally set out some new rules of behavior between us. My mother sensed a
    huge difference in me; she saw that I would no longer accept her picky
    criticism, and this caused her to reassess how she would treat me. We now -
    decades later - have have a relationship that is much more positive. She
    seeks my strength and counsel, and I give it freely. Some topics are still
    off limits; I refuse to discuss them with her, and she has accepted this. I
    will no longer accept her needless, picky criticism, and she no longer
    tries it with me. Indeed, we can change others, but it all starts WITHIN
    each of us.

    Thank you Nita, for prompting this memory and affirming just how beneficial
    Soul Mirror work really is <smile>.

    Amberlyn

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    - From: "Luca Provenza" <basim326@...>
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    - From: "Nita Hickok" <nita@...>

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